Remember
to take every moment and laugh. Enjoy what you do, if you're doing it, why
waste your time on being so sad and so negative?
While
Sister Galeria and I were tracting, there was this really mean guy. He was
closing the door and Sister Galeria tried to get in a word to this rude guy.
She points up to the window that connects one side of the door to the wall and
says, "Look! A spider".( While we were at the door I pointed out the
spider to her because I think they're cool and she's not a fan of them, and
neither was my last companion. )Once this guy heard Sister Galeria says this, he
jumped back and completely freaked out. We laughed for a long time after that,
no matter how people treat you-- be happy.
You
also never know how they might treat you after they were rude. That same day,
we went on this one street and tried to talk to this gentleman outside, he was
pretty mean and pushed us away. We went up and down this tiny street. When we
came back he was pulled into his drive-way, probably forgot something, then two
seconds later when he came back outside from the house, he handed my companion
and I both a water bottle. It was super sweet. Remember, as was brought up in
the Women's broadcast Saturday night, always treat others as best as you can,
no matter how they may act towards you.
Another
day this past week we were seeing if we could stop by a friend of ours.
We accidently went to the wrong house. As we were at the steps of the front
door, two dogs came over barking at us. They were the cutest things ever. As a
dog-lover, I HHAAAAVVEE to go up to the door and play with them from behind the
big glass, screen door. As I did so, they got super excited and started running
in circles. One of the dogs is big and one is pretty small. The littler dog
was moving left and right like crazy and then hit the bigger dog in the face
with his tail. He reacted as if he were in shock for a little bit, but then
went back to normal being happy and silly. Something about that just made
Sister Galeria and I laugh so hard.
We
backed out of the super long drive way of this house and went up another long
driveway to the right house right next door. On the way up through the woods of
the super scary driveway, we saw a deer. Sister Galeria gave me a banana she
had in the car, and told me to hand it to the deer. I was kinda confused, but
did it anyway and then she quickly took my camera and took a picture of me,
with the banana, and the deer. She then told me to throw parts of the banana at
the deer, it was hilarious. I promise that I didn't hit the deer, I would've
been greatly upset if I did that to him/her.
At
the beginning of the week it started getting colder. Then it got pretty
windy. I felt like we were going to be blown away sometimes when we were doing
something outside. By the end of the week it started getting super cold. I've
been told that the weather has been colder this time around than what it's
normally like in the past. Some people are predicting that this winter is going
to be one of the worst ones. I'm super excited for the cold, I love it so
much!! The only problem is that I have to figure out how to drive in the snow,
but hopefully by then I might have a companion who can actually drive on her
mission.
So
if you can remember one of my past emails forever ago, I said that I could
be a model along with an actress. Sister Burke was sick and so I took a lot of
super "awesome" pictures of myself. Well this past week we went over
to an investigator's home, Tara and Sven. Tara asked me if she could take a
picture of me. She's a photographer, and she's taking a picture of someone
every day to represent what she did that day. I felt like I was taking pictures
at school all over again, "Move your chin down, etc.." But this proves
that I totally can be a professional model now.
This
week as been pretty awesome in the fact that we've been able to enjoy so many
silly moments together. We were able to stop-by some people who were on our
former investigators list. We were able to contact 4 of them, and 3 of them are
wanting to meet with missionaries again. When Sister Burke was my companion, we
tried to find these people and talk to them, but they were never home or
available. The Lord works in mysterious ways, whether they weren't ready yet, or
the right people didn't come in contact for them and their progression.
Whatever it was, I was thankful to meet all of them and I'm excited to meet
with some of them more.
My
cute little 9 year old Bryce met with us. He expressed that he's not sure about
wanting to get baptized in November or December anymore, and that he thinks he
wants to do it in October. Their family is super busy in that month, but its
super amazing that he wants to do it even sooner! We told him to pray with his
family about it and let us know if he finds a specific date he wants to have
it.
I
also met with Alexis and her two kids. While we went over to stop by pretty
fast because they told us they didn't have much time, we found out that they
were having this big, kid hang-out with those that live on the street. While
waiting to teach them a little bit, Sister Galeria played and hung out with the
kids. This one girl wanted to sing songs, she was about 5? and she's a member
of the church. I rolled up my sleeves and got a bunch of little kids to sing
some girl's camp songs. Then we played some hand games and other stuff as well.
I love kids and I'm thankful for all the opportunities that I'm given to be able
to play and hang out with them.
On Saturday
I helped out with a service project early in the morning. We did a clean-up of
one of the main roads near me. The mom of the members I'm living with told my
companion and I to take a jacket. I didn't, but my companion did. It was kinda
cold outside, but I liked it. My hands froze a bit, and were starting to get
numb so it was pretty funny dealing with that. After the 7am-9am service
project we had a lesson with an investigator. She didn't let us in her house
and we just sat outside, I was freezing and I finally regretting not bringing a
jacket. I thought that I was going to be fine because normally it would've
heated up by 10 am, but Saturday it just didn't want to budge. I would definitely
rather the cold than the heat, so I was happy by that. But the lesson is, no
matter what kind of mom it is, always listen to them.
That
night I also helped out with another service project, but don't worry, I was
nice and safe and warm inside. It was super cool because from the activity day
girls (girls who are 8-11) and up were at this service project. It was right
before the women's session of general conference. It was super cool to see all
the blankets, dresses, t-shirt bags, meal kits, etc that these wonderful
sisters of the church were making. I'll never cease to be impressed by all the
service the members of this church give to others. I'm so thankful to be a
member of this great and glorious work.
Before
I end with a more spiritual thought, I need to tell what probably is my
favorite story of my whole mission so far. My companion, our zone leaders, and
another Elder call this the "Scary Gary" story. On Friday night this
guy named Gary texted us. Sister Galeria had the phone near her and asked me
who that is. He said he wanted to meet with us. I was super excited because
Sister Burke and I met with a guy named Gary at the beginning of our transfer/
near when I first got to Colorado, and Gary wasn't interested in meeting or
talking to us or letting us do any service for him. So we were texting him and
he asked us when the next time that we are available is. He then asked us what
time the next day. We told him the time and then he informed us that we weren't
going to make him become mormon. We told him that wasn't our intention. He told
us not to bring anyone with us. As missionaries, we sometimes like to bring
some people with us/ fellowshippers for the investigators. We like to find some
friends for these people because that's the way the community of our church
works, and missionaries move on, but members don't, so it gives them a friend
who is stable in one place. We told Gary that we wouldn't bring anyone if it
makes him uncomfortable. We have taught some people that don't want other people
besides missionaries there because they feel pressured and don't like more
people crowding their house or offering their help. Then... and this is where
it gets weird, and where most people would stop telling their family and
friends the story, but I have nothing to hide. Gary told us that
"Sometimes I like to wear girls clothes, like a tank top and a
skirt." We contacted our DL and then our ZLs. Our district leader told us
to have a member watch from afar. As Sister Missionaries, we can't go into
someone's house if it's just one or two males. Then we also got the Brother who
is in charge of missionaries over the stake involved. He told us not to go over
there as sisters. We got our zone leaders to go over and meet Gary at noon.
They went to his door and then he asked if he could meet an hr later. We
decided to go see him to actually see if he's interested, so that's why the
elders went. Since the Elders, one of our Zone Leaders and his companion that
he was on exchanges with/ one of my wonderful elders that was in the mtc with
me, sat in their car for an hour and waited. Then they went over back to his
house and.... no answer. We texted him and it turns out that it was a
different Gary that was in the other ward boundaries. The four of us drove in
our two different cars to my house to see the other teaching record for Gary.
We keep teaching records for people to see what the missionaries have taught
them and if they are a person that could be dangerous and to stay away from.
Long story short, he has some mental disabilities, lives with his parents, and
is 100% harmless. The Elders left and told us we could visit him ourselves. We
went to his house and at first he wouldn't come to the door because he was too
shy because of what he was wearing. We then drove about 3 houses down to get
some service to call him and he texted us "wait, I'm sorry, please don't
go". Finally he came out to the door and we talked on his doorstep. He was
wearing a tight, multi-colored tank-top and a short and small jean skirt. He
was also a chunkier guy. He's going through a bit of an identity crisis and he
knows it's not right, so he was reaching out to the missionaries for some help.
He is a very special-ed person, but we will always meet in public with him, take
someone else with us from now on, and be very cautious when we meet with him.
Super long and crazy story, but those are always best for telling for when you
are on your mission. Sorry if I worried you, but this is completely safe and
lots of leaders know and are aware of this situation and they agree.
At dinner last night my companion led the dinner message that missionaries will share with members of the church. The dinner I had was with Bryce and his family. It was about being a child of God, and how no matter what, that'll never change. I shared how I loved a talk from the Women's session of General Conference about your worth. No matter what you do, your worth through the eyes of your Heavenly Father will never decrease. One member, who is a young grandpa and I love him because he is about as preachy as my own dad, shared a story he would tell his kids. He said that he told their kids to go to the richest part of the town they were in, pick out the richest house and the richest car. Now go to that house and knock on their door every day telling them that their car and their house is worth nothing. Do that a few times. Then they'll just hand over their house and car to you, right? Sounds like a super good business plan? No? Well then why do you let people tell you that you're worth nothing and buy it? The buyer, our Heavenly Father, has already spoken. You are worth everything to Him, don't let horrible business plans rob you of that truth.
Along
with your worth, I love another one of the talks given in the women's session
Saturday night. Don't let others rob you of your happiness, especially because
they don't care about you being happy. Let yourself control whether you're
happy or not. Find the joy in the journey :)
Please
please watch General Conference this coming weekend. I wouldn't want anything
more, but to hear all of your comments and things you loved. What talk did you
like the best? Why? What were some quotes that you enjoyed? Please share and
please watch and I'll do the exact same :) :)
Shout-outs;
-Thanks
to my grandma and the jacket she gave me to use for my mission, it's coming in
handy.
-Thanks
for the friends that keep me entertained by talking to me as I write these
emails.
-Thanks
to my mom for always giving me advice
-Thanks
to my dad for being preachy ;p
-Thanks
to my lil sis for being a good example of someone who can love others and be
happy.